My old blog, tennisandconversation, was mostly about food – food I grew up with, food I tasted in my travels and food I started cooking when I finally learned how to cook at a rather late period in my life. Naturally, because I had just learned how to cook, I wanted to cook everything – French, Spanish, anything I fancied from my quickly growing collection of cookbooks, as well as from hours I spent glued to the Food Network. I cooked foie gras, paellas and tortellitas, moroccan stews and beef wellingtons – but I sucked at pinakbet and I trembled with fear at the idea of making kare-kare.
It was then I realized that if I were to become a good cook, I must first learn to cook the food of my roots, the food that sustained me from childhood to adulthood, that triggered deep emotions and vivid memories. My mom was a good cook; from her kitchen wafted aromas of adobo, kare-kare, caldereta, laing, kadyos; at the dinner table, cooking tips were passed, along with platters of tinola and pork liver steaks. Our home, if it were viewed from another constellation, would certainly appear to be a tiny star, its fire coming from my mom’s trusty oven and stovetop.
Why not, then, draw from this universe and serve them up in my open kitchen? The truffle and wild mushroom risotto can come later.
Hi Socky,
Forgive the familiarity, but I don’t know how else to address you.
This may come as a strange request. However, we share s common friend, and I am hoping you may be able to put me in touch with this mutual friend once more. It’s been many moons since I last spoke to Charo.
This being an open forum, it may be best to be off-line regarding this request.
Many thanks,
An old friend of Charo now living in Canada
No problem. I’ll forward your email to Charo. She may just visit next year, so I’ll make sure you connect.
Great and thanks!
Hope I hear from Charo so I can put her into the loop, as the “keatians” may be planning a reunion sometime next year (early spring or in the fall).
Socky,
Love your blog. This is Meg, JWT former. I’ll follow
Thanks, Meg. Now I should really update my blog π
Hi Ms. Socky,
I am a new fan of yours. Actually, quite an old one. I worked in AdBoard eons ago and that gave me the chance to get to know who you are in the industry.
Love your blog! It makes Retirement look and feel good. Now I kinda look forward to it with a bit of excitement (still about 20 years in the future but it used to be a such a dreadful thought).
In a recent trip to Australia, I have in my heart decided to haul the whole fambam there. It is a daunting task considering that we are doing quite well here. But my marriage is in shambles and I feel that we will be able to reboot there. Lately I have been praying hard about it and giving it so much thought. And then I read this:
“Confronted with choices we tend to default to what is comfortable, safe, secure moreso when we are older. But we must choose the less easy path if we know the rest of our lives wont be happy otherwise. We must trust the future we imagine will work out rather than stay put in a reality that is concrete and certain, comfortable but lacking.”
Thank you for sharing that realization. It made me trust what I had set my heart out for my family.
Looking forward to your entries.
God bless you.
Hi, Aileen. I remember you, so, hey, that’s not really eons ago π But my life in advertising does feel that way. Unbelievable, considering it is an industry I’ve invested a good part of my life in and one I really care about. Yes, I have taken the road less travelled and I think I’ve made the right choice. It takes some courage but you seem to have lots of that – and the youthful energy – to lay down the path you think will make you happy and things right for your family. I wish you the best on your new journey. Have less expectations, though, but have a lot of trust. That’s my piece of advice, if I may.
Thanks for dropping by my blog. I owe it to you and a lot of reader friends to update it.